I recall stories from my parents about how going to the dentist was a really awful experience when they were young. Their impressions of the dentist were not positive, to say the least. I never particularly liked going to the dentist when I was young but it wasn't a big deal - I am lucky to never have had an fillings necessary but I find it boring rather than frightening. Yesterday I had to go to the dentist and Elli's reaction was a bit strange.
"When are we going to the dentist Daddy?"
"I am going to the dentist Elli, you are going to school."
"But that isn't fair! I want to go to the dentist too!"
Then she threw a fit because she wanted to go to the dentist. She sees going to the dentist as a fun adventure with treasure at the end (the dentist has a treasure chest for kids). Quite the change in just three generations from fear to indifference to joy. I never thought I would get the opportunity to threaten
"Be good or you won't get to go to the dentist!"
and have it actually work.
If you really want to understand my point of view, get a filling with NO freezing. It makes me think of Marathon Man and Dustin Hoffman under torture.
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